I had a dream the other night that we were in China and handed our beautiful daughter. I was holding her and realized that she was very heavy. I put her down and realized that although the referral said she was 14 months old she was now 14 years old. I spoke to someone who was in charge and told them that there must be some type of mistake but they said that she was our daughter. They explained that the referral process and travel approval took a little longer than expected so she had aged a bit..... 13 years!!!!! Thank goodness this was only a dream.